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Sep 9, 2006 4:00:00 PM
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Audrey Kitagawa: First of all, we need to give up the myths that we currently have that ultimately do not serve people, and I'm thinking in particular of women, who have been given all of those fairy tales about the loss of goddesses, of their power to gods. The myths and fairy tales that have said that you, if you are beautiful and you're a woman, you are a victim, that a rich and handsome prince will come and rescue you from your state and that it will take a man to be able to do this for you, and that you will always be a victim and you need to be rescued from your state of victimhood by a man who is rich, who is of status. And I think that this has disempowered women, especially female children into thinking that this is what should happen in order for them to lead happy, fulfilled lives, that they will have to live all their lives waiting for their Prince Charming to come.
So first of all, we must have a deconstruction of these myths and fairy tales, and we must create the stories of empowerment to know that women don't have to rely on others for their happiness, for their empowerment, but rather that empowerment is within themselves and happiness is within themselves and that they must never see themselves as victims, but rather as empowered individuals who can lead happy lives because they will tap into their own inner resources and find their way in life to create their own stories, stories of courage, stories of overcoming, stories of a sacred journey that speaks to the value of their lives and their ability to be able to live those lives with courage, with strength, with dignity.
by Audrey Kitagawa
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