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Dec 1, 2007 11:09:46 PM
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Hi Siri,
At some level we all know that consumerism, particularly at its most crass, deadens our souls. Take for example, the case of the woman in this week's City Pages who goes to the Mall of America four times per week and spends approximately $100,000 there a year. (http://articles.citypages.com/2007-11-28/news/the-full-moa/) She admits that when she returns home she has terrible buyer's remorse. We recognize that there is a sickness in her, but we worry that the sickness may be in all of us. What I wonder about is the difference between consumptive behavior and purchasing beautiful things. For some who live in a country that is rising out of poverty, a refrigerator is a beautiful thing, proudly decorated and displayed in the main room rather than the kitchen. After the refrigerator comes the TV, and then the whole panoply of consumer goods we all "need". What are the factors that delineate between crass consumerism and acquiring beautiful things? Mass production? Quality? Quantity? Good taste? I just returned from a trip to India, where I sat on a bus next to an Indian man who told me that in his culture life is traditionally viewed in stages, with the last one involving the shedding of earthly acquisitions. We were discussing the phenomenon of ascetics, who are widely respected and given alms by people in hopes of bringing themselves good karma. He reminded me that Gandhi at one stage of his life was a wealthy lawyer, who in the latter stages of life ascribed to the virtues of asceticism. It makes sense to me to view life in stages, where it is acceptable to acquire things at one stage but where it is virtuous to shed those things towards the end of life. In my own life, I generally feel pretty happy about the purchase of things I love - art, good books (including yours), well made gardening tools, and even a beautiful pair of Italian shoes. But I also sometimes feel guilty, both about my privilege and the fact that I don't need to consume all that I do. My hope is that I am thoughtful in my purchases and resistant to impulses to buy based on advertising messages, but it isn't easy to resist the constant verbal and visual cues of culture. I grant myself a certain amount of acceptance of how I live, surrounded by some beautiful things. I recently asked a friend of mine who is an old Tibetan lama whether I am doing wrong and he said, not at all, but try to remember to be generous and give alms. That seems to me a practical, workable solution, and one that lifts the spirit.
Your old pal - Laura
by laura.danielson
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