Dec 5, 2010 1:03:39 AM cite

Because god is something that's been invented by society for security. Your real question is about the essence of religion, not really about why you're sexually abused. God doesn't let you be sexually abused over and over, it's you who allows it. Please take my advice and try and take control. You CAN get out of the situation.

by blankabianka

Nov 16, 2010 5:49:12 AM cite

I have no idea how much of an emotional burden being sexually abused is for you. Never have I had that same terribly unfortunate experience that you have had. You know that you are indeed a good person, although I'm sure being abused does not do wonders for your self esteem. Many are telling you that although the abuse is not your fault, it is indeed your fault for not having have sought help. They are dead wrong. You can't be blamed for how you feel. It's very easy to tell someone to get help, but it is a very different thing to be the person who needs help. Whoever is abusing you is making that decision, and they make it completely by themselves. That is a very very sad thing to hear, and an even sadder thing to know. People use their god-given free will, and sometimes it has devastating consequences for the people around them. But they are completely in control of this decision, and they are the ones who must accept the blame and the consequences for their deeds. God loves you and all of creation. But people have a remarkable way of screwing that creation up. Sexual abuse is a very unfortunate aspect of our society. It is even more unfortunate that you are having to deal with it in your life. The decision to seek help is entirely your own. Perhaps you can find a way to solve the situation from within. Personally I think seeking the support of others is a great way to solve a problem, and if you decide that you want to get help, you can start by calling 1-800-656-HOPE. You can talk to someone there about what you have been going through, even if you don't want them to take direct action. It might just be nice to get some things out in the air so that you don't feel so alone about what's been happening to you. I hope you do seek help. However, if you choose not to, then I hope you find some way to solve the fact that you are being abused and make your life as best as possible. God loves you and is with you always, and nothing that any person does can take that away from you.

by getbetternowww

Oct 29, 2010 5:53:08 AM cite

Simple: There is either not one, or any being that we would consider a god wouldn't concern itself with the affairs if an individual on one planet out of infinitely many. Take charge of your own life, its not your fault that you're a victim, but if no one will help you, then you're the only one that can pull yourself out. Good luck, and remember: you're behind the wheel.

by applesonstrike

Oct 23, 2010 3:26:00 AM cite

It's not GOD dear...YOU can change everything yourself...try to think what YOU can do about it instead of waiting for GOD

by nedmorid

Oct 23, 2010 3:25:57 AM cite

It's not GOD dear...YOU can change everything yourself...try to think what YOU can do about it instead of waiting for GOD

by nedmorid

Oct 4, 2010 4:18:46 AM cite

You haven't bothered picking up the phone and calling for help or questioned your alleged abuser or even fighting back. If your not going to do something yourself and instead rely on others then why should anyone let alone God help you? A lot of what happens to people can be easily stopped by people and what happens to you usually starts with you. Most atheists are abused children and take this philosophy to heart and turn that hate of their abuser into hate for God. Be strong and call the authorities, it's what you should do.

by jshm2

Oct 2, 2010 11:58:56 PM cite

God and all religion is man made and only exists as long as people believe, in this day and age we can debunk all of the so call holy books with science. As to the abuse that you suffer, your abuser is sick and or evil. You must tell anyone and everyone so that the abuse stops, do not let another day go past where you suffer at the hands of this person. Report the abuse to the police at the very least. I am sorry for your suffering, but it is when good people stay silent that evil will prevail. You have within you the means to stop the abuse, all you need is tell someone

by ukdirector

Sep 17, 2010 3:39:30 AM cite

That's simple. It's because God is imaginary and only exists in your mind.

by orks

Aug 21, 2010 4:12:15 PM cite

It is not your fault, but you not God can make it stop. You are probably a naïve person, a good person. Realize that evil does exist and become your own hero and vanquish the evil actions of others. You have power and there are those who can help, they are called the police. Do not put yourself in the victim position and become a mark for the abuser, do not be an easy insecure target. Get strong and take control of your life but don’t retaliate get help, it is there.

by Thai sean

Jul 21, 2010 2:48:12 PM cite

You would prefer not to have a free will?

by HURRA

Jun 3, 2010 6:16:40 PM cite

maybe through us humans is how God experiences pain, and only by going through it an understanding it can it eventually be eliminated.. like a doctor who must fully understand an illness to cure it. I don't know, just a thought I have had in response to all the pain in this world.

by alexandraklav

Jun 1, 2010 4:32:32 AM cite

Why do you blame a god that you put all of your faith and trust in for something that he obviously cannot control? the point of religion is to give you morals and understanding of the good side of human nature, not to blame and take only what you want or need. If you rely on God to save and fix your problems, then it seems you have not interpreted your religious book very well. If you are being abused and you want it to stop, i suggest seeking help. If this is the case, then I am very sorry for the things that you are going through.

by lostinthought

May 24, 2010 5:16:34 PM cite

God is imaginary. I bet if you went down to your local martial arts school and explained you situation they would give you classes for free. Also please talk to you teacher or another responsible adult.

by Halite

May 22, 2010 4:31:42 PM cite

In my opinion the god you reference here isnt real outside of the human mind. So the notion that some being outside the human mind let something happen to you is delusion. A person did this to you and as long as we as a species continue to understand the problems we face, like the one you have stated here, in terms of an ominpotent being that allows for everything on earth to take place and that has a hand in every action, then these problems will continue to take place.

by skeenan