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May 20, 2010 6:35:11 AM cite

Why does GOD let me be sexually abused over and over?

by lacrimoso

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Feb 14, 2011 11:54:27 AM cite

If one learns to fly a plane that does not mean one can build one. so inorder to fully understand a plane one needs knowledge and not tradittions. people who blame god for the good and the bad do this out of their tradittional understanding of god, but if you seek knowledge you will find that the more knowledge you obtain the more understanding you obtain. so if your understanding of god does not meet its expectations...it does not meen god does exsist but that your concept of god does not exsist.

by Gorilla Groove

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Dec 10, 2010 6:49:42 AM cite

yes why does he? now if GOD was a woman... Quite the pivotal paradigm - this GOD one. God Head Great Order of Destiny Grand Overture of Design Has nothing - categorically - nothing to do with you being sexually abused... Religious frameworks that have claimed GOD as their own - over time - have profited enormously, on- going- ly. The rights of life governed by a greedy, power hungry few... lost souls everywhere. Super wool over the eyes. Study more, investigate the known universe, propose some of your own questions on your own terms. Tuff call. Humanity collectively is GOD > we just haven't realised it...

by leahjet

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One of my better rants.

Dec 10, 2010 10:18:24 AM cite

I can’t get into this too deeply just now but there is the case of the ever expanding form in Hinduism. The Gods were all sitting around congratulating themselves when they saw this power greater than their own and it was ever expansive, without end. To make this story short it was representative of a greater power, even greater than that of Vishnu who put forth the universe. Vishnu is the male power and it is within his power to initiate the universe but it is the power of the Goddess that is ever omnipotent, she brings forth the universe from the seed of Vishnu. The universe is made by her and Vishnu is but a sire. Many forget the significance of a female God but not me. In their view the universe was born from the cosmic vagina of a Goddess. One does not have to believe in an actual God or Goddess mating and giving birth to the universe, this is symbolism and myth. If one could fly up into space at the time of the conception of the universe they would not see a God and a Goddess copulating. They would see that what is symbolic from the perspective of human experience of male and female reproduction. The birth of the universe is not produced by genital intercourse it is something beyond the human experience, so we need to use the metaphor of human birth, but I digress I just wanted to show respect for the God called woman. Anyhow my point is God is a symbol for something beyond human experience, something he doesn’t and can’t understand. So to place blame on a concept of god and having no knowledge of his or her function doesn’t fly. God is not a he or a she and is certainly not a grey haired man in the clouds looking down and helping us out or condemning us to an everlasting eternity of fire and brimstone. That is a religious concept of God that is from man, it is theology, ethics and so forth. I would say the above post is right and I would carry it further and say that God is everything, animal, vegetable, mineral, microbial and elemental.

by Thai sean

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Dec 8, 2010 4:57:04 PM cite

these accusations toward what God...God lets me have a million dollars, God lets me get stoned everyday, God lets me get verbally assaulted on the drive to work... I believe that God created for us, Life. Don't let the idea's of your mind degrade, force blame or even make you worship God, yourself or others. We choose what we're doing with our Life, God is with us when we choose...we all have the chance everyday to pursue the right choices.

by MatthewSenopole

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Dec 5, 2010 1:03:39 AM cite

Because god is something that's been invented by society for security. Your real question is about the essence of religion, not really about why you're sexually abused. God doesn't let you be sexually abused over and over, it's you who allows it. Please take my advice and try and take control. You CAN get out of the situation.

by blankabianka

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Nov 16, 2010 5:49:12 AM cite

I have no idea how much of an emotional burden being sexually abused is for you. Never have I had that same terribly unfortunate experience that you have had. You know that you are indeed a good person, although I'm sure being abused does not do wonders for your self esteem. Many are telling you that although the abuse is not your fault, it is indeed your fault for not having have sought help. They are dead wrong. You can't be blamed for how you feel. It's very easy to tell someone to get help, but it is a very different thing to be the person who needs help. Whoever is abusing you is making that decision, and they make it completely by themselves. That is a very very sad thing to hear, and an even sadder thing to know. People use their god-given free will, and sometimes it has devastating consequences for the people around them. But they are completely in control of this decision, and they are the ones who must accept the blame and the consequences for their deeds. God loves you and all of creation. But people have a remarkable way of screwing that creation up. Sexual abuse is a very unfortunate aspect of our society. It is even more unfortunate that you are having to deal with it in your life. The decision to seek help is entirely your own. Perhaps you can find a way to solve the situation from within. Personally I think seeking the support of others is a great way to solve a problem, and if you decide that you want to get help, you can start by calling 1-800-656-HOPE. You can talk to someone there about what you have been going through, even if you don't want them to take direct action. It might just be nice to get some things out in the air so that you don't feel so alone about what's been happening to you. I hope you do seek help. However, if you choose not to, then I hope you find some way to solve the fact that you are being abused and make your life as best as possible. God loves you and is with you always, and nothing that any person does can take that away from you.

by getbetternowww

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Oct 29, 2010 5:53:08 AM cite

Simple: There is either not one, or any being that we would consider a god wouldn't concern itself with the affairs if an individual on one planet out of infinitely many. Take charge of your own life, its not your fault that you're a victim, but if no one will help you, then you're the only one that can pull yourself out. Good luck, and remember: you're behind the wheel.

by applesonstrike

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Oct 23, 2010 3:26:00 AM cite

It's not GOD dear...YOU can change everything yourself...try to think what YOU can do about it instead of waiting for GOD

by nedmorid

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Oct 23, 2010 3:25:57 AM cite

It's not GOD dear...YOU can change everything yourself...try to think what YOU can do about it instead of waiting for GOD

by nedmorid

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Oct 4, 2010 4:18:46 AM cite

You haven't bothered picking up the phone and calling for help or questioned your alleged abuser or even fighting back. If your not going to do something yourself and instead rely on others then why should anyone let alone God help you? A lot of what happens to people can be easily stopped by people and what happens to you usually starts with you. Most atheists are abused children and take this philosophy to heart and turn that hate of their abuser into hate for God. Be strong and call the authorities, it's what you should do.

by jshm2

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  God by ukdirector 0 votes

Oct 2, 2010 11:58:56 PM cite

God and all religion is man made and only exists as long as people believe, in this day and age we can debunk all of the so call holy books with science. As to the abuse that you suffer, your abuser is sick and or evil. You must tell anyone and everyone so that the abuse stops, do not let another day go past where you suffer at the hands of this person. Report the abuse to the police at the very least. I am sorry for your suffering, but it is when good people stay silent that evil will prevail. You have within you the means to stop the abuse, all you need is tell someone

by ukdirector

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